I hate that in our day and age, not becoming emotionally attached with anyone in our lives is preached and praised. “Not giving a fuck about anything” isn’t a good life choice. I understand that being hurt from past experiences with love and vulnerability makes people put walls up. The thing about that, though, is that is a life lesson. That is supposed to teach you how to handle heart breaks, inconsiderate and selfish people, and every other bad thing that comes with emotions. That’s life. It’s full of emotions. Pretending like they don’t matter or exist isn’t healthy. You learn to be happy by moving past these obstacles, and knowing that you came out stronger from those situations so when they happen again, because they will, you’ll be okay. You’ll never find love pretending like you don’t have to have feelings to make it through life. The point is to have feelings and be able to control your life while embracing the ups and downs. Not shutting emotions out of life experiences.